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anonymous
writes:Im quite young but really mature. I can sort out my friends lives easy. Im fully ‘out‘ so everyone knows so guy friends are rare, but theres this boy. I love him, he sorta likes me (in a friend way) and everyone says we look cute together. At first I liked his friend (who everyone fancies) but hes so sweet. Hes straight but flirts back. BUT my best-friend likes him and he obviously likes her back. What should I do?
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reader, glasses  +, writes (11 May 2010):
the anonymous reader is right, speak to some of your mums gay friends what i did when i liked this lad but he was making it hard. He gave awsome advice and ben started to stop things (he doesn't know im gay) because in gym lessons he kept touching me.Speak older older gay people defgo there wise about these things.=]
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2010): Thanks xx I love you guys.
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (9 May 2010):
 Well I'm sorry to tell you..but if he's straight...there's nothing you can do. If you're gay, DON'T FALL FOR STRAIGHT GUYS. I know it's hard sometimes, but you'll just end up with heartache.You're 13-15 so you'll find other gay guys down the road that you'll fancy. There's no rush. Good luck
-A.E
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2010): Although I know you say you are mature (which is really cool) not everyone finds it so easy at your age to deal with people being "out". I guess you must be really keen for a boyfriend and there is nothing wrong with that but other boys might find it really hard to accept your affections even if they actually like you. You might even get a hard time so my advice is to go really cautious. Soon enough, you will be having a fab time and have loads of boyfriends - my advice is focus on having fun with your girlfriends, perhaps try and have some "friend" type friendships with boys - not all relationships have to be boyfriend / boyfriend and boys are more likely to declare how they really feel if thsy see you "blending" in - i'm not suggesting you change yourself in anyway (being individual is fab) but you have to compromise and try and get on with as many people as possible. Being gay is great but not always easy so the more friends you have in all camps the better! Remember when you boys do feel more able to be honst and open (perhaps when you are a bit older) dont feel obliged to throw yourself at anyone, just cause they're offering. What about talking to your mum? She might know an awful lot more than you reckon and could be a really good support. I suspect she has got loads of gay friends who could talk to you about this. take care
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