Why wont he take me seriously and go away?

A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Ok I almost had An affair with a married man that is twice my age. I am 31 years old and married for 6 yrs. I started to fall for this man at work who is a surgeon that is really attractive for his age. We started having coffee and talking on the phone a lot. There was so much chemistry btw us that I literally had to end the relationship. I knew if I had sex with him I would be emotionally and mentally messed up. I have tried to tell him how I feel but he doesn't seem to listen. I then told him to stop calling b/c I was falling for him but he doesn't listen. He keeps pursing me, calling, texting, etc. I then threaten to tell but he started laughing and said I'm never going to leave u alone. He is confusing me. I don't know what is going on. Of course he maybe seeing other women so why not go bother them instead of me. I don't want an affair. I'm scared. I can't tell no one b/c he is very well known at my workplace. Why won't he go away? Why is he not taking me seriously? I ignore his calls but he just comes to see me at work laughing and smiling like everything is a joke.

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