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writes:me and my boyfriend have been fighting lately and we love eachother very much i feel like everythings my fault of all the fights im scared that hes gonna lt me go again im happy with him but the other day my guy friend gave me a hug like a friendly one and i kept snobbing him off coz my bf said too he doesnt like it wen i talk to guys and i promise him that and it wasnt my fault my guy friend came up to him and hugged me buht i havent talk to him ever since my bf said not too and im really worried everyone told me not to tell him should i not or should i? its bothering me too much and im getting scared worried and stress out coz i love my bf so much and ill do anything for him to stay with him. please help me with my situration??? Reply to this Question
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reader, brighter_than_sunshine  +, writes (8 May 2010):
 Has your boyfriend had many girlfriends in the past? Some guys are only like this because they are afraid of being cheated on. A good guy will be respectful and understanding. This guy doesn't sound very understanding and is treating you like his property. You are not his property you are a person of free will. How long have you been together with your boyfriend? This might make a difference if you two have been together for a few weeks or months I would just give it more time. Once he realizes how much you love him and how trustworthy you are to him he might lighten up a bit. Sounds like trust is a major issue with this guy. So my advice is if you love him just keep showing him how faithful you are to him. Express your feelings of how his lack of trust is hurting your relationship and your feelings. Assure him that you love him and only him!
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reader, Emaz help  +, writes (8 May 2010):
 gosh you're still so young! you need to live your life before you start doing things your man wants you to do. If you listen to him and stop seeing your friends then you will lose them and of course evetually lose your bf then who will you have left? You're friends are more important and if this guy really likes you then he'd let you HAVE friends :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 May 2010):
No disrespect, but when you let your boyfriend tell you who you can and can't be friends with, then you're with the wrong man. He has no right to dictate who you see. I think this guy is starting to control you far too much. Think carefully about whether you want to be with guy who controls you. You shouldn't have to be scared. All you did was hug a friend. That's it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2010): well it sounds like he cares about u alot but dosent trust u .. talk to him and tell him that hes the only 1 for u and that u will never hurt him .. tell him that the guy is just a friend nothing more .. and if he dosent go for it and still dosent want u to hav guy friends hes just controlling .. does he hav girl friends .. if so do u think that is fair for you not to hav guy friends but he can hav friends that are girls
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