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writes:Ok so there's this guy I've met up with a few times. They were never official dates, just coffee but i could kinda tell he wouldnt mind us being official. The problem is that he's so shy when it comes to dating! He's not shy talking about normal stuff but as soon as anything about love comes up he goes real red and talks a lot without saying anything! I really wanna date him, and i'm really not shy but i don't wanna scare him. How do i get the message across that i wouldnt shoot him down? Thanks in advance :)
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reader, Bambina  +, writes (9 May 2010):
If he's shy, like you're saying, chances are you're gonna have to drop pretty blunt hints for him to get it! It's things like body language and eye contact that give him messages. Don't be afraid to break the personal space bubble, you'll encourage him to do the same. It's all about encouragment, you've got to respond well if he tries to push things forward even a little bit. It could take a while! And if you're impatient, just go ahead and ask him out! The guy doesn't always have to do it ;) Good luck - B xxx
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