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I like him but he likes her and I want him to like me

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Question - (8 May 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 May 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey guys!

right, i have a problem, obviously.

There's this guy i like, and i have done for a few months, ever since we met at this party, well ive been seeing a lot of him because i hang out with his mates and everything, and it's not just me, some of my girls are there too.

Problem is, i think the guy i like likes my best friend now, weird because he did like me and i really thought things were gonna take place. But whenever were with them, he's always flirting with her, and i feel so uncomfortable just being there.

Any ideas what to do? what to say?

i hate being in that situation, i still like the guy! but he's giving my friend way too much attention it's not even funny. How do i get his atention back? I'll do anything!

some help would really be appreciated guys! thanks!

x x x

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A female reader, rainbowmaker United Kingdom +, writes (8 May 2010):

rainbowmaker agony auntFind out how your friend feels about him. Does she fancy him? Does she know you fancy him? If she knows you like him and isn't interested in him herself then simply ask her if she would discourage him from all the flirting he's doing with her.

If she does like him and he likes her then i'm afraid there aint a heck of alot you can do. Men are funny (no offence guys) he may still like you and the flirting with your friend thing could be just to try and get a reaction out of you to see how you feel about him.

Talk to your mate. Good luck doll!

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (8 May 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntBe better than her to win back his attentions. Change your outward appearances to appeal to his senses.

Be more open and flirt with him. He likes to flirt.

If nothing works, then stay away from him because his mind is only fixated on your best friend.

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A male reader, Fatherly Advice United States +, writes (8 May 2010):

Fatherly Advice agony aunt"You love her, but she loves him, and he loves somebody else, you just can't win. And so it goes until the day you die. This thing called love it's gonna make you cry."

Sorry, I couldn't resist. What you need to do depends a lot on how the other girl feels. To get his attention you are going to have to get her to be colder to him. Otherwise you will have to catch his attention (be forward with him).

Chances are you have been misreading him. He could only see you as a path to her.

FA

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