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I've never had an orgasm and need some pointers.

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Question - (8 May 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 May 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi,

I have never had an orgasm through masturbation, and I was just wondering if I could have some pointers. (I am a girl.) Thanks!

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A male reader, Russell101 United Kingdom +, writes (9 May 2010):

as a guy i cant really give you any pointers on how to reach orgasm through masturbation, but the girls that have reached climax while i have been with them did so by first of all relaxing. Also, it is more common for a girl to reach climax when the masturbation/intercourse is spontaneous. Don't think to yourself beforehand "I am going to have an orgasm" because chances are you won't. You'll be too anxious about it to enjoy yourself. Wait for the moment when you feel most aroused and then think of your wildest fantasy and work up from there.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2010):

unlike boys, it is hard for girls to get an orgasm. however, once you have one, you will find the way to reaching the orgasm, and it is becoming easier and easier,or even you will amazingly find you can have multiple orgasms, thats awesome.

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