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30-35,
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writes:*OP's own title*Boyfriend tells me he doesn't want me thinking he doesn't want me talking to anybody that he knows that certain people are going to cross my path that I cant avoid, that it's life. He tells me he talks to this female co-worker and that it's only brief and simple , but when she messes up on paper work he laughs and jokes around. It kind of bothered me because deep down inside I knew he spoke to her, but he says to not take anything wrong because he would never do that to me, because he grew up seeing his dad cheat on his mom. It still bothers me because I felt like he lied to me, but he told me the truth.Did he feel guilty about something? Or he wanted to be honest? After he said he didn't speak to her?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 May 2010):
 He was trying to clarify some things which can be easily misunderstood.
Sometimes words can be taken out of context or that they come out and have a different meaning when the other person listens to it.
He does not want to go his father's way and he is being frank with you.
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (8 May 2010):
 There is nothing wrong with speaking to other people. If you have issues with a partner engaging in simple conversation then you are wanting to control their most minor actions. You need to lighten up and stop reading in to things where there is no just cause or you will end up pushing people away from you. No one wants to have to asnwer to or have suspicion cast upon them for simply acting like a human and talking to people.
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