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female
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26-29,
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writes: I like my mum but I feel like I dont want to tell her anything about my relationships because I find it hard to talk to her about stuff like that (and I think she'll probrably tell all her friends) and I really do want to tell my mum how much I love my boyfriend and tell her about my first kiss and stuff but I cant, and I really do feel it would help if I talk to her about stuff like that... Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Ms Leila +, writes (10 May 2010):
If you want to talk to your mum about your experiences, you should ask her what her first kiss was like, and who it was with. Ask her " when you were my age what type of boys did you have crushes on?. She might get the hint that you are willing to share some info with her, if she shares some with you. Tell her you really appreciate being able to talk to her about these sort of things and that its so nice to know your secrets are safe with her. If she knows you trust her to keep your secrets to herself, then she is less likely to share them with her friends. You can keep the conversation casual by doing something while bringing it up, like walking the dog or shopping. Keep the convo light and remember you don't have to share everything with her, just the tidbits you want to! Take care!
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