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female
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36-40,
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writes:My partner will not get an STI check up even though he has had numerous sexual partners and even a son! We have been together for three years but I have wanted to wait until we had sex. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2010): Three years is a long time to wait. There must be something wrong or it would have been one of the first things he would have done,when he started a relationship with you. Withhold all forms of sex until hes got himself checked. You arent asking for much.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 May 2010):
 No clean bill of health - no sex.
He is in a high risk group and you won't know if he has STD's.
Play by the rules or you will regret .
It is better to be safe than sorry.
If he loves you he should take the test .
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (8 May 2010):
 What is his reason for refusing? That old saying guilty people have much to hide comes to mind. If he's refusing to do this I wouldn't sleep with him.
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