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writes:I am going through puberty and I am scared of being bisexualbefore (about a month ago)I was scared of being gay but nowI am getting turned on by girlsplease reply as this is a embarresing question and I am scaredof asking my parentsplease reply soon as I am scared Reply to this Question
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reader, Blod +, writes (8 May 2010):
 There's no need to be scared. As you said, you're going through puberty and it's probably too early to tell how you really feel. There's no straight answers when it comes to sexuality so it takes time for these kind of things to settle. I'd say being gay or bisexual crosses most people's minds during puberty. It's a bigger deal for some obviously. But I think you just need to give it time. Your feelings will become clearer as you get older. So don't worry!
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reader, brighter_than_sunshine  +, writes (8 May 2010):
 I'd say you probably need to mature a little bit and what I mean is you need to find yourself! There is nothing wrong with being homosexual or bi. Don't be scared of being who you are that is what makes you! I understand your parents might be upset but if your parents really love you they will love you no matter what. You can't go thru life lieing to yourself because you will never feel happy and complete. Just turn on the t.v. and you can see plenty of politicians who later in life realize they have been living a lie. When they just needed to accept who they are to begin with. I gurantee in a few years things will become crystal clear. So in the meantime don't stress just live your life and be happy! You are so young you will have plenty of time to figure it out. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2010): You are only young still, its only natural for you to be curious about your sexuality. Plenty of teenagers going through puberty get attracted to members of the same and opposite sex, your hormones are all over the place; it doesn't necessarily make you gay or bisexual. However I think that maybe the best thing for you to do is talk to your parents or some adult that you trust, they will be able to help you sort through your feelings. Either way you have no need to be scared. No matter what your sexuality everything will turn out fine. Like I said, you are young and could be going through a phase. At one stage I was attracted to both girls and boys when I was going through puberty, but it turned out to be nothing. Everything will work out, I promise. Good luck xx
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