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writes:i've been urging to have sex with my boyfriend of 7 months a lot lately... i want it really bad but i'm scared of the consequences. what should I do to satisfy these feelings without having to deal with consequences? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2010): Oral sex!! I know some people on here wont agree with me suggesting to someone your age to have oral sex but to be honest its a lot better than getting pregnant! And it can be actually a lot more satisfying! Of your boyfriend is happy to go down on you its a lot easier to make you climax than it can be by manual stimulation or even "real" sex! :)
Other than that, try fingering, lots of other sex play, and if you can buy one, you can always use a dildo if youre really wanting penetrative sex.... because then there is no risk of pregnancy! :D
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reader, Lanzie +, writes (8 May 2010):
I lost my virginity at 14 and I do not regret it but I was very responsible. If you do please wear a condom, and preferably get on the pill. Before you go for it, I would def. try doing other things for a while.
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reader, lil miss blond3 her answerin ur questions  +, writes (8 May 2010):
 the consequences. pregnant, sti's ?
you can avoid them ?
condom, the pill other forms of contraception ?
but if you dont want to have sex but have urges.
and your both happy about it, go further. experiment but just dont go as far as having sex.
hope i helped.
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reader, Emaz help +, writes (8 May 2010):
 firstly you're underage meaning that it's illegal....but im sure you know this. If you have these feelings then why not try masturbating by yourself? Then when you do feel completely emotional ready (not just 'wanting it') you will understand what sex feels like and you will be more ready :)
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reader, missymooj +, writes (8 May 2010):
At the end of the day, even though you are underage you are old enough to make your own decisions. It says you are age 13-15. If you are 13/14 I would definitely say you need to wait until you have sex. I waited until I was 18 and it was def. the best decision to make! I was 15 when I had my first long term relationship too and although I was in love and the guy treated me amazingly and we thought we were ready for sex, I'm glad we waited because you change a lot physically and emotionally!! Only you can decide though. If you and your boyfriend are in love and feel ready then make sure you use a condom to protect yourself from STI's and to prevent getting pregnant. If not then why don't you buy a vibrator online or explore your own body to satisfy your urges! Good luck :-)
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reader, XxHinkaixX  +, writes (8 May 2010):
 Thats difficult...
maybe to satisfy the feeling...just do it.
I mean...with proper protection and some limitations and rules, sex can be safe and fun.
So talk to your boyfriend about it...(including rules that you may have) and ask a parent as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2010): if u want to have sex with him sit down and talk to him about it ... but if u want to wate u can alwayz masterbate
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