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writes:i love my girl a lot but I'm not sure whether she loves me or not cause whenever she is with my best friend they seem to have a lot of fun and I'm left out .......please help is it lack of trust from my side or what ?????????
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2010): I would worry too because your key words are she is spending more time with your BF then with you. That is saying a lot and where there is smoke there is fire so ask yourself. How much more time is she spending with the friend then you. If she is constantly choosing the friend over you then you know where her priorities are and it isn't you.
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reader, rainbowmaker  +, writes (8 May 2010):
 Speak to your girlfriend. Tell her it makes you feel uncomfortable when you are all together and she seems to be having more fun with your mate. I dont think its lack of trust i just think that It doesnt make you feel so great when she leaves you out in favour of him. Nothing wrong with that.If she's a decent girl then she will take what your saying into account and try to involve you more. If not then it looks like you might just have to find someone else who does care about your feelings.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 May 2010):
 Sometimes being together for a long time can be boring and she needs a little excitements and fun. You need to have trust in her and that you are her b/f at the end of the day.
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reader, beccababes +, writes (8 May 2010):
 dont worry, this happened with me, just remember that she likes you, not your best friend. She probrably wants to feel like she fits in with your friends and instead of feeling left out you could join in, just talk a bit more in the convisations they have and you could maybe hug her or something to show your affection when your with her and your friends so she knows you really like her.
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