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writes:I was just wondering about what some of the biggest turn ons and turn offs for single girls are? I'm just not feeling very attractive at the moment! So i want to do something about it. I dont mean to change who i am, i just want to change the way i act and look but still be the same person. I anyone has got any suggestions from habits to the kind of things one can say or the way someone looks like stubble and hair and eyes etc, then give us a shout! thanks :) Reply to this Question
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reader, beccababes +, writes (8 May 2010):
 Biggest turn on- someone confident, friendly, clean
biggest turn off- someone who only ever talks about sex
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reader, Blod +, writes (8 May 2010):
 I agree with the other posts. There's no need for anything drastic. Just take care of your appearance and make sure you look tidy. New clothes and little changes, e.g. hair, can make a big difference to the way you look and feel. A quiet confidence is really attractive.
As for the way you behave around girls, respect is essential. There's nothing worse than someone who treats a girl like an object. Guys that are genuine, kind and thoughtful are great. Most girls like to be treated like a princess so be a gentleman. Little things from holding doors to compliments can make someone so much more attractive. And eye contact is important too! Google it.
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reader, veronika  +, writes (8 May 2010):
 I'm a single lady :)
For me, good hygiene, motivation / ambition to do something in life, being well dressed (and I don't mean dressed up all fancy schmancy like, I mean just wearing nice, clean clothes - not stained sweatpants, for instance), and the ability to hold a conversation are all 'turn ons' for me.
But turn ons will differ from woman to woman. I personally LOVE facial hair and chubbyness but for some women that's a complete turn off.
A lot of women also like a man who smells really good :) Buy a nice cologne for a confidence boost, maybe. It's something superficial, but it can make you feel better about yourself.
Bad breath, visibly dirty clothes (like stains etc), swearing a lot (a little is okay, but not every second word), and being obese are all turn offs for me, personally.
But again, this is just *my* preference.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 May 2010):
 Biggest turn on is being confident of yourself, dress smartly and talk intelligently.
Biggest turn off is being clingy and obnoxious.
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reader, serenity80 +, writes (8 May 2010):
I would suggest physical exercise, like a sport, running, or the gym. I exercise regularly (4 - 5 times a week) this in combination with buying new clothes, keeping well groomed (hair styled, clean short nails, healthy skin) keeps me feeling attractive and confident. It is these things that I find that women find turn ons. In other words, make the effort to improve yourself physically and that is what will make you feel and appear attractive.
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