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writes: Im in love with this girl ive known her for about a year she has had the same boy freind for almost 10 months and im afriad she might fall in love with him i have never heard her say that she loves we are not best freind because im to afraid if i get close to her she will consider me just a freind this guy is older plays football i do to but hes the riped starting QB and im the linemen so he has the avantage she the cheerleader but her personilty isnt the bitchy cocky cheerleader she is sweet and so beutiful but dosent even realize it points out more of flaws and non of her postive i tell her she is beutiful every day but in the right way so it is not creepy i just want to be with her and sometimes it seems like she is not happy with her realtionship but i cant be for sure i just want to know what i need to do to be her even if it was just for a day because i cant move on ive been with out with three girls since ive met her but can never seem to make it work with out thinking about her so i need help please
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reader, LovelessAct1 +, writes (24 December 2010):
When I was in high school I never wanted to hear this, so I'm sure you won't want to hear this now, but: you're still so young! There's so much time ahead of you.
Just so you know, hardly ever to high school relationships make it. If you really do like her, I'm sure you'll get a shot someday down the road if you keep contact with her, but I'd highly recommend looking for someone more available.
There are plenty of fish in the sea...blahblahblah. You've heard it before :)
Best of luck!
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (24 December 2010):
She has a boyfriend, she has been dating him for 10 months, thats two months less than she has known you ..
so you havent heard her say she loves him, have you considered they keep those declarations private?
You simply have to tell yourself the truth, you dont know her, not really, you are not even a friend of hers. This is just a silly day dream that is consuming you, find yourself another girl to day dream over and let this one go
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