A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I have a HUGE problem... I am in a relationship with this really great guy, but I also have a GIANT crush on this other guy, let's call him G. And my bf name M. So, I think G keeps giving me hints that he likes me also, and I really want to be with G. But I do NOT want to face M, because I don't want to be mean. Also, G and M are best friends. What should I do???
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reader, petina1 +, writes (24 December 2010):
I would break up with M, nicely of course. Then see what happens over a period of time. G may get in touch but let him know that you don't want to rush straight in for fear of Letting M know that was your plan. Otherwise you will be heading for trouble if you two time M which wouldnt be fair and you would lose them both anyway.
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