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writes: I'm 15, I have 2 girls who like me they are both nice and I would get with either of them but I fell in love with a girl who doesn't like me along time ago and we are best friends, I know she doesn't feel the way I feel about her so I'm not sure if I should get with one of the girls that like me or continue to go for the girl I love, help?
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reader, petina1 +, writes (24 December 2010):
It's not easy trying to win the girl you love. If you are friends you could always try and show her how nice you are, maybe her opinion of you will change. Does she know that these other two girls like you, maybe she thinks you will be a player. You could always tell the girl you are willing to wait for her , just for a little while anyway. I wouldnt recommend getting with someone just because they like you, you have to have strong feelings for them in return for any success. Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2010): heya, im fifteen aswell and ive been in that situation except i was the girl. i felt terrible if i made him sad because he was my bestfriend. my guy never liked any other girls but i know if he had i would have been so jealous because i didn't realise it at the time but i actually had some seriously strong feelings for him. she may not realise her feelings for you until its too late and you have moved on so maybe you should ask her to her face because people almost always give you their honest answer or you'll be able to tell from her body language. dont pressure her to tell you though, just be there for her. if she doesn't wake up...move on
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