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writes: I'm in love with my boss im engagde but me and my boss spents more time together then me and my bf i really dnt know what i must do we kiss this morning for the first time do i tell my fiance or do i just make if it never happend i realy do love him but im madly in love with my boss and he is inlove with me to plz do help plz
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank for all who said something and you all are right for some off you its just me and my boss in the bussness no one else?I did end it with my boss like some off you say i just got cold feet the wedding is pospone for now i told my fiance everything and we talk it out we going though rough vibes now he is a bit mad at me but that understanding for his side even if it was just a kiss its still cheating after all this i really know who i love the feelings is there for my boss and my fiance knows but like most off you said who says he will stand by me when me and my fiance breaks up my BOSS ain't so good for me to loose my dream man i just thank all that i told him and he forgave me for what happend
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank for all who said something and you all are right for some off you its just me and my boss in the bussness no one else?I did end it with my boss like some off you say i just got cold feet the wedding is pospone for now i told my fiance everything and we talk it out we going though rough vibes now he is a bit mad at me but that understanding for his side even if it was just a kiss its still cheating after all this i really know who i love the feelings is there for my boss and my fiance knows but like most off you said who says he will stand by me when me and my fiance breaks up my BOSS ain't so good for me to loose my dream man i just thank all that i told him and he forgave me for what happend
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2010): well 1st of all u should feel bad cause you never start a chapter before you close one and if you r so in love with your boss then thats were you should be cause think about it if that was you getn played like that you would be saying how bad your bf hurt you so you shouldnt be with your bf if you cal your self loving someone else that mean you dont realy love your bf if you can say you love someone else i would never do that to my babydady even tho he hurt me a thousand times cause love is nothin to play with
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reader, JustAGirl.x  +, writes (24 December 2010):
 you sound like a teenager with a crush on her teacher, this probably means absolutely nothing, if you really liked him and he really liked you, you would be together and you wouldnt be betraying your boyfriend.
why stay with somebody you dont love? is it really worth it? your gonna make the pain 10x worse when you split up, because it will happen, nobody can keep secrets and one day he will find out, and even if he doesnt, will you not feel bad each day knowing you've cheated on him? knowing that theres somebody else out there who would be perfect for you.
stop wasting his time also yours and end the relationship!
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reader, jessica-lea +, writes (24 December 2010):
 It depends on whether, you do LOVE your fiance, and if you think you can work through it, and forget about your boss..
or whether you feel that you really should be with your boss then you are going to have to go with your heart..
who do you really love? ...
Good luck :)
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reader, banofee2 +, writes (24 December 2010):
i think you should tell your fiance otherwise you will feel guilty for a while. you might not be in love with ur boss you might justt have cold feet. Maybe your not ready to get married and you could prospone your wedding for a bit to sort things out
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2010): That just makes you a cheater, if you love your boss, why dont you breakup with boyfriend then date your boss, but believe, when you start dating your boss, you ll see he wont treat you the way hes treating you right now. People just love what they cant have, when he has you, he ll be looking for the next employee he can take advantage of.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2010): Break up with your bf,you dont love your bf,otherwise you wouldnt have allowed yourself to be in this situation.Stop trying to convince yourself you love him,love doesnt hurt.No one forced you to cheat,you made the concious decision.Let your bf go & stop wasting his time.Whether you tell your bf or not,he will find out,the truth will come out,because at some time or another you will slip up.You say youre in love with your boss,i hope he is inlove with you as he says he is,& not just using you.He sounds like a nice guy,seeing as he has no respect for you or your bf or your relationship.Better hope the work colleagues dont find out,or will be labelled a cheater & who knows what else.You havent thought this thing through have you?
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