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New to sex and want to make it better

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Question - (24 December 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 December 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

How can i make sex with my boyfriend better for him? I feel pretty useless.. i mean.. i dont exactly just lay there but like he kisses my neck.. plays with my boobs and bum and stuff.. and i just dont know what exactly to do. hes rather experienced.. had about 12 partners.. i was a virgin till i him about a month ago. Im obviously not gonna be like a sex genious ga but like.. He tells me to moan, he says things like 'you can let it out you know' but i dont feel i want tk moan.. And im not gonna lie! What can i do to make it better on both parts? Other than loads of different positions. I dont feel comfortable enough yet. Ive only just started sleeping naked with him ha. Could i sound anymore lame! Help guys xx

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A female reader, Madalo 1 Malawi +, writes (25 December 2010):

Its all a matter of time. You'll feel more comfortable with sex and will be willing to try new things. You dont have to push yourself, it will come naturally.

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A male reader, Problem.helper United States +, writes (25 December 2010):

Problem.helper agony auntTotally agree with trancedrhythmear

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2010):

Not lame at all. I think this guy should help you with some things and give you some encouragement. I think he should treat you extra special too since youre inexperienced i e he should be giving a lot to you and not necessarily taking. He should also be giving you good feedback like "babe that feels good" or "I love it when you do this" and he should compliment your body up and down and left and right. Its okay if youre not comfortable with some things... tell him what you like so you can ease in with sex and get a hang of some things. Theres really nothin wrong with that. Good luck :)

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