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writes: hi recently me and my gf broke up i still love her very much but she doesn't plan on getting back. now even though it was a horrible break up we are still very good friends but what i don't get is she wants to text and call how we used to. we even had well what i think of as phone sex. Does she still love me or what? does the constant calling and texting mean anything? i do like it even though i cry because i am still very in love with her and miss the times when we were together. she still wants to stay very close even though she doesn't love me i just wanna know if it means anything
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reader, MrsTetzlaff  +, writes (24 December 2010):
Depends. She probably broke up with you because she thought that you were too good for her. I did a lot of that crap when I was younger. I never thought that I was good enough for anyone or I tricked myself into thinking that I needed another man even though the one I was with was absolutely wonderful for me. Women are really weird.
If I were you, I would keep your options open. I would remain her friend and just try to get over her as best you can. You just never know with women these days, sorry I can't be of any more help.
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reader, Blod  +, writes (24 December 2010):
 I don't think it does, sorry. It sounds like she wants attention but doesn't want a relationship. She's using you. So stop texting her and don't respond to her. You're not in a relationship now so why should you text her? She's stopping you from getting over her and leading you on to believe things that aren't true. I'm sorry to put this so bluntly, but you need to stop replying to her. It's unfair on you. Good luck.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 December 2010):
No, sadly. It means she has you wrapped around her finger and loves the attention. I'm afraid there are people in life who essentially collect ex's and use them to their advantage. My first girlfriend attempted to do this with me a few years ago when I was your age. But I saw through it.
You mustn't fall for this sort of treatment. If she loved you, she'd be with you. Instead, she's just using you to her advantage until someone else comes along.
I know you're hurt, but don't let her treat you like this. You deserve a woman who will commit, not someone who'll just phone you when she likes. That's not good enough.
You've got plenty more time to find a better, more committed woman. Don't accept Drama Queen treatment.
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