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My daughter is suffering over this man! How do I help her?

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Question - (24 December 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 25 February 2011)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

Ok I dont know where to start all I can say ..... He left woman #1 to be with woman #2 that had his child then he left his child and woman #2 to go back to woman #1 that forgave him then left woman #1 to be with woman #3 my daughter is suffering over this man and it kills me to see her like that I dont know what to do this is too much to handle what can I do to help her move on

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2011):

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Still having problems, this man left my daughter and my grandbaby, he went back to his ex, then he wanted my daughter back, he would call my daughter begged her to take him back while he was still with his ex. Everyone told my daughter not to go back to him because he was not trustworthy and plus he abused her emotionally, financially, and physically. She told him to leave her alone that it was over. And finally he left her alone. But now my daughter feels lonely like she will never have a family of her own that no one will want her. When she feels overwhelmed she tells me that maybe she should have given him another chance. I dont know what else to say to her. If someone loves you they dont put you through so much. There are days that she does well and then there are days that I can see her sadness. As a mother it hurts to see your child hurting.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2011):

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Still having problems, this man left my daughter and my grandbaby, he went back to his ex, then he wanted my daughter back, he would call my daughter begged her to take him back while he was still with his ex. Everyone told my daughter not to go back to him because he was not trustworthy and plus he abused her emotionally, financially, and physically. She told him to leave her alone that it was over. And finally he left her alone. But now my daughter feels lonely like she will never have a family of her own that no one will want her. When she feels overwhelmed she tells me that maybe she should of given him another chance. I dont know what else to say to her. If someone loves you they dont put you through so much. There are days that she does well and then there are days that I can see her sadness. As a mother it hurts to see your child hurting.

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (5 January 2011):

petina1 agony auntYes I know what you mean, all you can do is be there for her when she needs y ou, our children never listen to us do they?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011):

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thank you for your advice its been difficult this man left my daughter had a child that he doesnt support he doesnt even send his child a birthday card nothing he is already having problems with woman 3 I have done my own research on this guy and even though I have all this info on him my daughter doesnt what to accept the fact he is not right for her or anyone else for that matter

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (24 December 2010):

petina1 agony auntNot sure if your daughter is no.1 or 2 or 3. If she is no. 1 or 2, then she really does need to get over him with your help. She will need you to be there for her. This man will eventually leave no.3 and possibly either go back to no.1 or will find a no.4. Hope this helps. He is obviously confused.

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