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How do I get through this? He called to tell me to forget him.

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Question - (24 December 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 December 2010)
A female Lithuania age 30-35, *ozett writes:

I traveled from my country to another one, for a job, leaving my parents, my friends and everything. I met a guy that i loved so much. I liked the new country. Because of him and we spent a lot of happy times and great moments.

But I found out, after 6 months, that he is in another relationship already, even before me, till now, and living in her place.

When i faced him he started to apologize and promised me that he will never do that again.

I did a favour for him, because he tried a lot to leave her. She was always refusing, and creating troubles, so i forgave him because i love him so much. Actully i can not see my life without him, the day after i tried to call him, with no answer

So i called her, to tell her that i forgave him, and to avoid contacting him anymore.

After 1 min he called me to tell me, just to inform you that i am with her...forget about me.....!!!!!

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A female reader, mizz.butterflies United States +, writes (25 December 2010):

mizz.butterflies agony auntjust move on. he's bad for you. Do yourself a favor and avoid all this drama. You can find a much better guy. Just make sure next time he's not in any relationship!

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A female reader, Molly0102 Singapore +, writes (25 December 2010):

I was in a similar position as you a few weeks ago. I was totally head over heels over a guy who was attached and even allowed him to two time me. However, I left him because it dawned upon me that if a guy really loves you, he wouldn't put you through such emotional trauma or tell you to forget about him. This guy is a douchebag. It's better to move on without him.

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