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30-35,
*he nice guy
writes:well i stooped texting my ex's and i did not text her for like 5 days then she sends me a text inviting me to her birthday and and she told me if i was going or not i just said i did not know and she was trying to convince to go she told me that all of my friends are going to After that conversation she told me if i wanted to go to the movies with her and 3 of her friends she told me that she invited one of of my friends so i said sure i will go and i kept on texting her then she told me that i should go to the movies sooner and that my friends was not going but she still wanted me to go so i said i will still go then i went and i was texting 3 of my friends and she was really noise she wanted to know who i was talking to and what we were talking about so i only showd her one of them because that was my guy friends then this one girl sends me a text telling me if i wanted to hangout later and my ex's was wondering if i was going to i just said i dont know and as i was going to put my phone in my poket i got another text from the other girl and my ex's does not know this girl so she was asking me who she was and everything i really dident tell her much so throughout the movie she was wanting to get my phone from me but she never could then the movie was over and and we went to go see another one and she sat by me at first it wasent weird but we moved somewhere elss to sitt and she keept on trying to sit by me and throughout the movie we keept on talking and then we went to this one store and got something to eat and then they all had to leave i was going to walk home so i just said by to all of them and they were walking to there car and she told me wheres my good bye hug so i gave her a hug then left and later on that night we were texsting and she told me that she missed going out with me and i told her i missed going out with her to soo one thing led to another and we started going out again then the next day throuout the day i was texting her and then she sends me a tet saying that all of the stuff she was telling me was out of hipernest that she had that day and that when she said that she missed going out with me she was actually trying to said that she actually mised having a boyfriend and that she thought about it really hard and stuff and that if i dident work out 2 times then why would it work out know and so it ended again And know i really don't know what to do about it and if anyone could help me that would be really good and thanks if anyone does help
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reader, the nice guy +, writes (25 December 2010):
the nice guy is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for the advice
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reader, petina1  +, writes (24 December 2010):
 Sounds like you have a lot of friends and both are a bit uneasy or afraid to say what your true feelings are. Why don't you just go out now and again. Be truthful with her. I don't know if you want her to see your texts, but if you've nothing to hide and obviously your not serious with her yet, should be no harm done. I think she likes you a lot but is unsure how to be with you because she would like some commitment and not be just another girlfriend. Bit confusing I know but she sounds confused. If you really like her then let her know, be yourself and find time to talk about where you go from there.
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reader, _nataliebeebaybee1 +, writes (24 December 2010):
 if im being truthfully honest this girl seems really immature. she asks you to go to the movies, leads you along and tells you she misses going out with you then says that she was hyper that day and she just meant she misses having a boyfriend.
Maybe she was thinking about going back out with you until she seen you getting texts of other girls and that sort of put her off. Im just wondering what the age differance betwee you too are though ? she says come here go there and you do it. Is she younger than you?
I think you deserve better shes trying to put you on hold until she can make her mind up and it isnt really clear that she has at this point.
Maybe time away to see what other girls are out there will help you, you might still like her or love you but personally this girl has you under the thumb xxx good luck
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