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writes:I've been having trouble with a guy friend! So I deceided that I needed some space. I wrote him a message saying I needed space but still wanted to be his friend. So we haven't been talking during vacation. The weird thing is that I still have dreams about him. All this week but I havnt been thinking about him much. Why would I have dreams about him? I mean they're nice dreams but I'm trying not to think about him Reply to this Question
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reader, GettingHelp  +, writes (18 April 2010):
He's on your subconscious mind is the short answer :)If you are having dreams about him, this tells me that whilst you may not be thinking about him consciously you are certainly thinking about him subconsciously.Don't try and divine any meaning behind specific dreams, just realise that he is niggling the back of your mind. You say you needed space, but you don't say what the issues with him were. Perhaps its time to face these issues head on or find another way of dealing with him being in the back of your mind if these dreams are really bothering you. But my guess is that would depend on the history or the specific issues with him.
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reader, DABFIL04  +, writes (18 April 2010):
your subconcius is telling you that you miss being around him all the time, maybe you should talk to him a bit more, maybe once a week it may help your subconcious to know that you are still friends with him
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