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writes:Hey everyone !!! I want to ask a quick question. What is the good thing about being friends with benifits and by that i mean holding hands, hugging, cute names, making out. (nothing sexual) ?? And what is the bad part ?? thanks alot Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (18 April 2010):
That is not friend's with benefits. What you describe is called "dating."
Friends with benefits are what two FRIENDS become when they are both drunk and want sex but not to be boyfriend and girlfriend.
If one person wants more then it's not friends with benefits, it's using them for sex and that is very very very bad.
What you want is a teenage boyfriend. Friends with cuddles and everything. At your age even if you are serious there should be nothing sexual going on anyway!
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 April 2010):
The bad part is that if you fall in love with him, and he doesn't fall in love with you you will get very hurt.
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reader, Problem.helper +, writes (18 April 2010):
 The thing you shouldn't start it with someone who you got feelings for other than sexual if you want to keep it that way.
My brother and his wife started like that and after a year their feeling got bigger and stronger and it develped there.
It's a risk because you can fall in love and he doesn't have to and you'll get hurt.
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reader, heather108 +, writes (18 April 2010):
 I've had one of those FWB relationships for the past eight years and I don't know of any "bad part".
He's three year older than me and was my first "all-the-way" sexual experience.
We get together whem I'm home on semester breaks, and several times he has come to visit me at school, like for ball games or holidays when there's no current bf around.
Our motivation is not love as that nas never been mentioned between us but we definitely do have a very special friendship and that's the best part.
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