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writes:So, I've been in a relationship with a man I love very much for about a year now, and we have plans to get married. Whenn my best friend had one of her exes around, who she was about to start dating again, we started talking a lot, mostly about my best friend. I'd never so much as thought about another guy in the past year, but with him things are different. I've ended up talking to him constantly, and spending all my time with him while my fiance is at work. I'm starting to fall for him, and I'm sure my fiance knows something is up - but on top of that, my best friend still has feelings for him - and, this new man's best friend is a serious ex of mine. I'm not sure how to break to any of these people, what is going on between us. Suggestions, please?
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reader, Lucky786  +, writes (18 April 2010):
 Get some distance between you and this guy QUICK!Once you are away from this guy, I suggest you have a serious think about what or who it is that you want. You say you love your fiance but are spending time with this guy behind his back. Are you bored with your fiance? Can you honestly see yourself getting married to your fiance in the future? If the answer is no, then I suggest you end things with him now. As for this other guy, I think it would cause too much trouble all round if you were to start dating him.
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reader, surferx16 +, writes (18 April 2010):
what i think you should do is realize if this is truly the direction you want to go. Are you sure that this is what you want? are you willing to lose your fiancée for this man that just came into your life? If so then you need to tell him fast before things get out of control. Just make sure that this is the way you wanna go cause if not then in the future your going to be very upset and there will be no going back. good luck
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