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writes:My boyfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago. we had been together for 6 months and we were serious about eachother and he told me he loved me.one night he broke up with me by text!!!! and we've only been apart for 2 weeks and he's after being with 2 more girls!!how can i get over him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2010): My ex boyfriend did exactly the same thing, except we were together for about 8 months, we were so happy, and he dumped me out of the blue, by text, to persue other girls.
Guys are young, the majority don't want to get tied down and want to play the field, so first of all know the problem isn't YOU. You did nothing wrong, it's just him being a selfish bastard.
First of all, pick yourself up girl!
Go out with your friends, go shopping, get your nails done, get a new hairstyle or colour, have a night out with your friends, do all the things you love doing!
Keep yourself busy, start a new project and get focussed on your studies, those are the key to your future, not some lousy idiot who didn't know a good thing when he had it.
Honey, I am almost 100% certain that he will contact you again, it could take a week, it could take a month, but please listen to me when I say DON'T REPLY. Seriously. I replied to my ex when he texted, and I got sucked back in and he dumped me again after a couple of weeks. You really must get this guy out of your life, because he had his chance with a beautiful, kind, loving person, and he chose to throw it away because he thinks the grass is greener. That's his problem.
Now, you missy need to get yourself out and about, get glammed up, put your best outfit on and your highest heels, and go show them other guys what they're missing, and in no time you will find another sweetheart, I promise!
Don't ever let this idiot back into your life, he had his chance and he blew it, and I regret letting my ex into my life so please don't make the same mistakes I did.
He still texts me every now and again, but I'm strong now, and I just delete his texts, because the truth is I don't care if I never see that boy again and he lost the best thing he's ever gonna get so it doesn't bother me!
I got over my ex, you can get over yours.
It takes time, and determination, but I can assure you in a years time you'll be laughing about this, when you're snuggled up next to your new sweetheart :)
Chin up girl, it happens to the best of us, it's an experience, granted not a great one, but you will learn so much about this and you can take it with you for the rest of your life and apply it to other relationships because there's PLENTY more fish in the sea.
Don't rush new relationships, don't go sleeping around, don't go out actively looking for new guys. Just have fun, live your life, get on with whatever you're doing, and when you least expect it a new, right guy will come along and turn your life upside down.
You only live once darling, our time is limited so don't waste anymore time moping over some loser who didn't know what an amazing thing he had.
Stay strong and remember how fabulous you are :) x
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