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*hegaga
writes:hi, im a 15 year old girl and i really feel i have fallen for my 22 year old teacher. i make excuses for myself, make it okay in my mind since there is only a 7 year difference in age and that if i was 20 then he would be 27 and that isnt weird at all, he isnt married but he does have a girlfriend that i do know hes been with for a 5 years now, i know what she looks like and he could do so much better also shes 8 years older than him so he doesnt mind age differences :)we chat quite often hes soo polite and nice, and he we laugh and hes such a gentlemen we have lots in common music wise and films we also dissagree on little things which make our conversations brilliant, i dontget to talk that often lately though as whenever i try hes busy or i dont want to seem too persistant. hes soo gorgeous and i dont like any boy no where as near as much as i like him.. love him. it isnt a crush, i seriously dont ever become attracted to boys which is why i dont have many boyfriends ive never felt anything when kissing boys my age but he is different i feel shaky when hes around after even saying hello my hands shake and i feel weird, i think about him constantly and my two week holidays at school is over by today so i am back at school tommorow and all i can think of is seeing him saying hello to him making him laugh taking the miccy out of him. hes shown interest in my by the way we talk and that he likes my art work and film work in media class hes told me how talented i am he even shows interset in my hair and tells me what colour he thinks i should dye it, hes soo sweet its driving me mental. i just wish i was a littl older like jump 2 and a half years down the line and id be 18 and he 25, im in year eleven soon and when i leave it wont be that bad will it.. i dont know.help!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (19 April 2010):
 Yours is a forlorn cause. You may dream and fantasize about him and enjoy all those beautiful thoughts .
Your teenage idealistic views are a fertile ground to breed romance and love.
You need to make a clear distinction between what is real and what is unreal.
In time , everything will pan out and you will learned that this is all part of the process of growing up.
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reader, single gal  +, writes (19 April 2010):
you are still too young,
i know you think you are in love. but you are not. this teacher of yours probably sees you as a younger sister. plus he might get into trouble if he does anything with you. now think about this , do you want him to get him into troble. i dont think so. try and imagine him as your brother or something.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 April 2010):
Sorry girl, but the fact that he has an older girlfriend indicates he is looking for a certain maturity and perhaps even prefers older women (some do). This won't happen. You may think he can do better, but he's obviously happy with this other woman, and that's it. And when you do leave, chances are he could still get into a lot of trouble. You're too young, and he's already taken.
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