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36-40,
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writes:Here is my messed up life.....I am an young girl who is confused about what to do, it terms of Sex,I dont know whats wrong with me in that department.I have a low sex drive and sometimes i think am a lesbian.In a country like mine, where homosexuality is illegal,i definately cant afford to be in a relationship with a girl..because i will be hated and my family will disown me...yet i love them and they are my reason of being....I have to get maried to a man.if i dont get married,i will be judged,no security and i want a family too..chilren ,, stuff like that... plus i need to have a relationship with some one any way.so i cant be a lesbian even if i wanted.Before all this; I was in a very good relationship for 4years with a man i love, but our sex life was miserable...i guess thats why it ended in the first place.And ever since i cant stand a relationship, ,,,every guy i get, i dump him after having sex with him.i dont know if thats the reason i hate men, the fact that..i love my X.......and have failed to get over him...Being in love with my X,and yet you cannot safisfy him is a big handle. FOR THE RECORD, HE STILL LOVES ME . BUT I FEAR makING him miserable, EVEN IF HIS the only guy that am attracted to...now am wondering what to do....... do i get back to my X, and try as much as i can to make it work..or do i stay single and be judged the rest of my life?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2010): You should try and make it work with your ex. I mean, if you both love each other then why not give it another try?You both just need to try and make it work this time, your relationship and sex life.All the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2010): move to somewhere you can be yourself! thats my advise, why live in a place that doesnt care who you are as long as you dont act on it!?id move! forget the confusion,just get out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2010): Move on and get over your ex. Your life isn't messed up, you just need to stop making excuses especially hurting every guy u meet in some hope that your ex will admire you again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2010): Why do you HAVE TO be in a relationship? Why can't you be on your own? I think you're confused and adding all these meaningless flings into the mix is making you feel worse.I'd suggest you would benefit from being alone for a while. Work out how you feel about your ex and then move on.
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