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writes:Here is my messed up life..... I am an young girl who is confused about what to do, it terms of Sex,I dont know whats wrong with me in that department.I have a low sex drive and sometimes i think am a lesbian.In a country like mine, where homosexuality is illegal,i definately cant afford to be in a relationship with a girl..because i will be hated and my family will disown me...yet i love them and they are my reason of being....I have to get maried to a man.if i dont get married,i will be judged,no security and i want a family too..chilren ,, stuff like that... plus i need to have a relationship with some one any way.so i cant be a lesbian even if i wanted.Before all this; I was in a very good relationship for 4years with a man i love, but our sex life was miserable...i guess thats why it ended in the first place.And ever since i cant stand a relationship, ,,,every guy i get, i dump him after having sex with him.i dont know if thats the reason i hate men, the fact that..i love my X.......and have failed to get over him...Being in love with my X,and yet you cannot safisfy him is a big handle. FOR THE RECORD, HE STILL LOVES ME . BUT I FEAR makING him miserable, EVEN IF HIS the only guy that am attracted to...now am wondering what to do....... do i get back to my X, and try as much as i can to make it work..or do i stay single and be judged the rest of my life?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2010): You should try and make it work with your ex. I mean, if you both love each other then why not give it another try?You both just need to try and make it work this time, your relationship and sex life.All the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2010): move to somewhere you can be yourself! thats my advise, why live in a place that doesnt care who you are as long as you dont act on it!?id move! forget the confusion,just get out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2010): Move on and get over your ex. Your life isn't messed up, you just need to stop making excuses especially hurting every guy u meet in some hope that your ex will admire you again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2010): Why do you HAVE TO be in a relationship? Why can't you be on your own? I think you're confused and adding all these meaningless flings into the mix is making you feel worse.I'd suggest you would benefit from being alone for a while. Work out how you feel about your ex and then move on.
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