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female
age
41-50,
*azzie1
writes:Why do I feel a certain way when I break things off with my boyfriend who has a violent history, short tempered and had cheated on me in the past. I'm a single mom of two boys 15 and 9 and I left the kids father who was the opposite from my boyfriend. Its been 5years and we tried living together but I had to kick him out last year cuz he tried to choke me but again I took him back. He hasn't put his hands on me since that incident but where always arguing about little things..just yesterday he got mad at me cuz I told him i didnt want my little son on his bike..he actually walked out with his daughter and left..cuz he said that how can I not trust him..but I know him like a book. He has given me reasons to doubt him and when he gets mad he say's things to disrespect me like how theres a pattern with me my kids father cheated on me and now him..he has some nerve..then he tells me how he met a classy woman which in all reality I am but he doesnt want to take it to the next level cuz of me..I'm so sick of this bull..y cant I forget about him?
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reader, empop +, writes (19 April 2010):
One of the problems with abusive relationships is that they're exciting. You're on an emotional roller coaster, with high highs and low lows, and the high highs are addictive.
You need to get this man out of your life - you're in a dangerous situation right now. Seek out the help of a professional organization that's used to dealing with domestic violence. Many of them can connect you with people who have been through what you've gone through. Maybe one of the ones on this website can help you? http://www.domesticviolence.org/
In the future, perhaps you should seek out exciting activities to recreate the excitement you seek. Maybe you could go skydiving, or go out dancing or something, with future boyfriends to get your excitement kicks that way.
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