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*liceinunderland
writes:Hi,A year or so ago my friend came out as bisexual.At first I was okay with it, but now its going over the top, she's 14 years old and talks to girls she doesnt know over the internet and arranges to meet up with them, she asks me to go with her when she's meeting up with them. I go along, but I have no-one to keep me company whilst she's off with these girls ( and I mean she's known them 5 minutes and she's all over them)Recently she asked me to get on a train with her to a place I've never been so she could meet up with this girl again. I don't want to sound horrible, but I said no because its like I get on the train with her and she gets off with someone better.I know she feels a little guilty that I am ending up alone, but she seems to brush it off and carry on with whatever she's doing.How can we either, A. Get our friend back, or B. Make her realize how selfish she can be ( she is a very stubborn person btw, if we fall out according to her it is never her fault and she never apologizes)
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reader, Aliceinunderland +, writes (19 April 2010):
Aliceinunderland is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for the great replies!
I understand what you are saying, but this friend is the sort that twists reasoning. I have tried to discuss with her how I feel about her and this buisness but she always turns it on me saying I am so narrow and I use her and that she hopes people will see I never do anything for anyone. This upsets me because I am often offering a hand to her and all my other friends, I dont like to let them down.
I used to be a bit weary of her when she first came out, not I just put up with her, she can be very forward and pushy.
I dont want to be a bad friend and I dont want her to make me out to be one.
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Aliceinunderland
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reader, Polaroid93 +, writes (18 April 2010):
This is difficult I know because it happened to me, but my main worry is that this is seriously dangerous! She could be meeting anyone, you should really tell her parents cos if something happened and you hasn't you'd feel responsible, tell her parents anonymously, slip a typed letter through the door or something. If she won't accept it do it to her or just tell her!!!!
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