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reader, Just Diana  +, writes (18 April 2010):
 Conrary to the myth you will not go blind from masterbation. The only thing that may happen is that you penis will end up bit raw from all the friction. Its normal and natural at you age to be materbating. Your hormones are going crazy. Rather masterbate than have sex. As for quick ejaculation...you are still young and mastering your dody and its needs.......give yourself and your body time to mature already! This will come in time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2010): You are perfectly fine as long as these acts are not impeding upon other aspects of your life.
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (18 April 2010):
 This could be handy (see what I did there? haha!) when you get older and are having sex with a girl because you'll have built up a resistance which means you can go for longer! However, when you are in a relationship, make sure you don't put porn before sex with your girlfriend.
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reader, Heartbroken in love  +, writes (18 April 2010):
I agree with caring guy. Nothing wrong with it just don't develope an addiction to porn. I watch porn sometimes though I've watched a lot less as I get older. My personal opinion is that you should mov away from watching the kind of porn your watching. The hentai porn if I remember correctly is sometimes rather violent. It is my opinion that certain types of porn will affect you idea of what sex is. So that when you come into a relationship you tend to think that's what you do. If you want to watch porn try moving towards strait heterosexual porn
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (18 April 2010):
 You are a naughty boy, aren't you? I suggest you don't tell anyone about this in person because once I told my mum about something like this, and she was disgusted.
Maybe you should go for a walk when you feel the urge, rather than seeking what I would call "cheap gratification."
Or learn how to cook. Cooking is a good substitute for masturbating. You need a hobby or something.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 April 2010):
There's nothing wrong with it at all. Just be careful that you don't develop an addiction to porn while you're at it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2010): it ok there are no acctual problems with it i've been masturbating 4 times a day since i was 12 for 8 year even when i have sex. I will even make your penis a bit larger.
And about the lasting you are young that's why and lose up on a grip and try not to put presure on it calm down and breath
I couldn't go more than 5 min with a girl when i started and after practice i can go to 40 minutes of constant sex.
also thinking about something assexual helps a lot.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (18 April 2010):
 Do everything in moderation's. Excessiveness is bad for your health.
Masturbating constantly over a period of hours can produce some swelling or ‘puffiness’ of the penis. This is called ‘oedema’ and is due to fluid leaking into the tissues. It will disappear after some hours because the fluid goes back into the bloodstream.
The only time masturbation isn't safe is on those rare occasions when young men (or occasionally women) decide to experiment by masturbating with potentially harmful objects – such as a vacuum cleaner!
reference:-
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/masturbation.htm
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (18 April 2010):
 There's nothing wrong with what you're doing. You're learning how your body works; that's just natural and appropriate.
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reader, Isa123 +, writes (18 April 2010):
 For your age, of course not! You are only being a normal, curious, teenage boy.
As for cumming pretty easily: When you start feeling like you are about to cum, stop. Let yourself relax for a few minutes then do it again. Do it a few times and let yourself cum. It's pretty rewarding =).
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