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I hate my rotten existence

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Question - (18 April 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 April 2010)
A female Ireland age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i hate the people hurt me and every day i get sadder and sader and more unhappy no body cares about me home.i have be going counsellors since i could read,i have been bulled,attack,called names, rejected,ingorned,even stacked,no body cares abut me at home and how unhappy.i have no job i applied for few jobs but got none,i have no real money i am in my 30s still living at home.i have no friends to turn to when i am upset,guys have rejected me all my life.people arien,t nice to me.i find hard to talk to people.i also have insulted,i never even got my 1st boyfriend and i never got my 1st kiss,i am also over weight,short and ugly,i have no intertsed in any thing any more i just don,t care

is there any out there my age who can help me with my problems

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2010):

I've been where you are. In fact I've been in a darker place than that. It got so bad, I ended up cutting myself off from everyone, my family, work colleagues and friends.

Today I look back at that time and wonder how many opportunities I missed to meet great people, whilst I wallowed in my own misery. I now have a great circle of friends and a wonderful man in my life. Don't misunderstand me, I'm not saying that everyone I meet is wonderful, but experience has taught me that when I hated everyone, the only person I was hurting and depriving was myself.

You need to start working on yourself. You need to start loving yourself. Only once you have accepted yourself will others start accepting you too. Please don't waste anymore time wallowing.

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A male reader, Problem.helper United States +, writes (18 April 2010):

Problem.helper agony auntThe the thing you need to do is to start work on yourself right away. I know you got it hard but if you try really really hard happiness will come to you :)

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (18 April 2010):

rcn agony auntI believe this is a duplicate question. I had answered and extended my services if emailed to develop a program to start redeveloping in a positive direction.

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