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writes:I've met a guy I think I really want to be with. I've never been in a long relationship before. He has, he's been in a few year type relationships where i always do months. I lost my virginity to him recently, although he had slept with 4 people before me.My question is, because he's been in long relationships before, does this mean he's that type of guy so he'd probaby stay in a long one with me?I'm scared of him getting bored of me, although he genually seems crazy about me, i can't imagine liking someone for years! 'cause it's never happened, and i know so many people do but i can't imagine it.xxxx
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reader, dearjohn83 +, writes (18 April 2010):
you don't have to make a decision anytime soon.
take it easy, relax and enjoy his company.
If it works out it works if not there are still plenty of fish in the sea.
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reader, DwayneC  +, writes (18 April 2010):
 It's all a part of maturing. Nothing seems definite when you're young. Things just seem to go at your own pace. That is why you see so many younger people having multiple partners or having a partner for such a short period of time. As you get older your feelings in a sense become more refined and you tend to believe you can stay with someone especially if you care for them as deeply as you say you do. But when you really get into that relationship LOVE has no time and time can seem like its going so fast or going so slow that you just feel like being with that person is all you need and all you could ask for. Yes, a relationship is a roller coaster but the ride is worth it.
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reader, rcn +, writes (18 April 2010):
 take it one day at a time, love laugh and enjoy today, and if you do that enough, and not thing about way down the road, you may just end up down that road, and not realize that time had gone by.
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