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writes:i like this girl in my class. we talk everyday and we have became best friends. it started when this other guy in our class started hitting on her. she didn't like him at all and he wouldn't leave her alone. so she asked me if i would sit in between them in class. at this point i didn't really like her that much, but i agreed anyways. she said her boyfriend couldn't help cause he was still in high school . over time me and her started to get close and it got to the point where we were spend everyday together. we hangout just the two of us and we flirt a little. this other guy got real jealous and he started saying thing about her. so we setting this problem the hard way. during this time she and her boyfriend were having some problems. she said she was tired of the way her boyfriend was acting and that she gave him too many second chances. now its got to the point were shes all i think about. i wanna tell her how i feel but i don' want it to kill are friendship. would i just tell her or stick with the flirting and hope for the best
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (18 April 2010):
 If you wait too long, she may think that you are not interested in her and will place you in her friends category .
You got to make a move soon or she will kill her interest in you.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (18 April 2010):
If she is still with her boyfriend, say nothing and accept she is with him. If not, then it's best to talk to her.
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reader, Isa123 +, writes (18 April 2010):
 First off, is she still with her boyfriend?
If so, be very careful. Most Women tend to look for their closest male friend for support. And it may turn out to be rebound.
If not, then you can wait. Wait for her. Be there for her. But sometimes waiting isn't enough. You will know when that time comes. But for now, just be there for her. Tell her your feelings when you feel that you are ready and she isn't with this boy.
Good luck to you.
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