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writes:ok i have a huge problem and i cant keep it bottled up anymore i think i like (actually i dont think i like him i no that i like him) my dads cousin he is 10 years older then me im turning 20 and he is turning 30 i dont see him much maybe once a year not even but the other nite i saw him and he looked so cute and he was looking at me when he was talking to someone else then he came and sat next to me and started speaking to me then afterwards i was walking and i noticed him staring at me, he also offered me a drink 3 times. he kept staring at mewhat does this mean?does this mean he likes me? i really like him i dont know if i should tell him should i? i talk to hime on facebook a few times and he called me a fine girl and he gave me his number just in case im feeling down or want someone to talk to i thought that was very sweetwhat should i do i didnt really grow up with him the last time i saw him apart from the other night was in 2008 i started liking hime after i had a dream about him but i have always found him cute please helpi just dont want it to be awkward if i tell him and he doesnt like me back then at family reunions its weird help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2010): He's related to you. This may not mean anything or matter to you but it might to your dad. Just remember that things could get awkward. I wouldn't tell him. You're young. Give it a few years. Yes, years. And if you still feel this way...then it's your choice. But remember...at the end of the day he will be your Dad's cousin and all that goes along with that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks everyone you people were really helpful
i just keep thinking about him
it probably makes me sound weird
i might keep talking to him on facebook that way i can see what happens what do you think?
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reader, swordandredrose  +, writes (18 April 2010):
honestly, I am just wondering how you can be in love with someone that you only see once a year! but that's ok. In my opinion, you should definitely not tell anything about this to him because he is your dad's cousin so you may put him in a very awkward situation. The signs that he has shown you kind of tell me that he likes you but I can't tell if he likes you the same way that you like him. I think you should start talking to him on facebook more often and try to figure out if he shows interest in talking to you more frequently.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2010): Try and meet up with him. Then tell him that you really like him and would like to hang out with him. Make plans to go somewhere together, preferably at night or in the evening. Wear an outfit that shows a lot of skin, like maybe a short dress or skirt, and notices if he looks a lot at your skin. After you've finished, be sure and kiss him goodnight and hug him, and tell him you had fun and would like to get together again soon. Facebook him after your "date" is over or email him that you'd like to get together again. Take things gradually so that he gets to the point where he really likes hanging out with you and starts asking you out. Hope this helps.
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reader, Just Diana  +, writes (18 April 2010):
 You are young. I do not think you should be obsessing about your dads cousin. It sounds to me like a sweet crush. I also hope your dads cousing has sense enough to realise this and not seduce / tempt a response from you becuase of his own sense of need, loneliness or.....simply just him adoring the attention you give him, therby stroking his ego.My advice....not worth it. The sooner you distartct yourself with something healthier, the sooner through retrospect you will see this situation for what it is. A crush.
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reader, r_a_w_r1645 +, writes (18 April 2010):
 i would tell him. just see what happens. and if he doesnt and you think it will be awkward well its happened to me to except i liked my sisters ex bf, told him, and later they got back together. it was weird seeing him we were both kinda embarassed but now everythings ok.
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