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41-50,
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writes:years had bulling and rejection.missing out on love because of rejection. people who rejected me always find love the likes of me does n,t .has left me with a lot of problems.i have being going counselling since i was 6 years old.i see other people who can find love and be happy but not me.i suffer from depression,low self esteem, social problems,scared of people, intimacy problems,always rejected,i am also very over weight,ugly face,chubby, crooked eye, crooked yellow teeth,bad hair,i have being called names, threading ,attack,bulled,left suicidal.i went to the doctor he was no i went counsellors they were no help either.all i ever wanted is to be loved by some one instead i have being called names and rejected and told i wasn,t good enough,and guys tell how good all they ex girlfriends were and how i would n,t qualify and i was nothing but waste of there time and energy .i never even got my first kiss and let alone my first boyfriend and always the outcast at school,i am going crazy from being alone and unwanted.my mother does n,t understand my pain and loneliness
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reader, mizz.butterflies  +, writes (18 April 2010):
 Hey ! you need to listen to some hip hop.This kind of music really helps ur self esteem. You need to start about your new life where you'll be balling. Therapy doesn't do wonders.It will just take one decision. STOP ANALYZING YOUR LIFE AND LIVE IT. You dont like certain things about you?? Change them! Get a job if you dont have one,save some money,go get new teeth or apply to some make over program on tv. There are plenty of those. There are even reality shows for weight loss. Scared about what people who know you will say? DONT BE. You gotta do the best you can,otherwise you're gonna live a life of misery.So when you get your physical appearance on track,you already will start feeling so much better. You really need to focus on that. I know people will say to you that its the inside that counts,but I think you wont be able to get over all that drama unless you fix your looks.So once you get this straight,you can do what you've always wanted.Try new hobbies,sports...I was never a beauty queen either,but i worked on my looks and now i get tired of receiving compliments.but after all,its YOURSELF that counts. Promise yourself that from now on youll be a strong woman who will never let anyone let her down. From now on you're going to live your life to the fullest. Set goals.Work hard. Nothing comes easy.You can PM me if you want.Good luck
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