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writes:hey. well im 18yrs of age and i've been having a lot of obstacles in my past realtionships. well today my boyfriend and i broke up again all because i wanted to talk about something i seen yesterday in his phone. i wasnt going to fuss or fight about it, i just wanted to get some understanding about a lot of stuff because we had just got back together friday due to him cheating on me again but with my cousin and some other females at the time. but me as being in love with him and wanting to work things out took him back without thinking. i also seen some messages on his facebooks pages where he was talkn to a lot of other females and issuing his number out to everyone of them. i kind of got mad but i thought about it because we werent together at the time but he lied about it though when i had asked him. so now he told me he is completely done with me and he dont want me to call or text him trying to make up with him and he is going to stay out my way. im in a lot of pain right now because he just broke up with me for a stupid reason. i feel like its something else to that. i just need some advice on whether or not to look forward to us again or leave him a lone. but to sum it all up we have been in an on and off relationship for a year now and he just dont know how to treat me but i sit and wait for him to change and show me he can do better but he still wants to play lil childish games and lets not forget he is a year younger than me(17). i've been through a lot with this boy and i ask myself why do i keep trying to hold on to something that isnt meant to be held on to. he cheated on me twice and one time with my cousin and a whole different other girls. can someone please help me and gie me some advice please!!!!
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (20 April 2010):
 He is still cheating that is why he is so defensive.
He does not deserve your friendship or your trust.
Move on with your life.
Honeygirl
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (19 April 2010):
 I think he got upset because he is still cheating. You are better off alone than with him, so be happy you have him out of your life!
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reader, Isa123 +, writes (19 April 2010):
 Oh dear.
First off, he does NOT deserve your trust. He cheated on you and does not deserve for you to give him any benefit of the doubt. If you snooped, it was for a reason.
But he obviously hasn't learned his lesson. If you truly want to be with him again, he has to prove it to you. It may take quite a while because of what he has done.
But please don't cling on to him. He will find you easy and will not change.
Good luck sweetie.
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (19 April 2010):
 Well, I think you know that you two not being together is for the best. I know how you feel when you say you keep waiting around for him to do better but he doesn't. When you love someone it is hard to let go even when they are bad to you. But letting go and moving on is best here. If I were you I wouldn't take him back if he wanted to anyway. So, cry a little and realize you are better off. Then when you are ready you will move forward. Leave him be. Take care.
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