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writes: soo sorry this is rly long, had a helllll of a weekend!! me and my bf had been together for 4 months. but we had been fighting all the time and started to get less close. so on friday (its sunday now) he came over after school and everything was good. he was supposed to leave at around 6 because me and my gf had plans. his father was supposed to come home from a long trip that night, but plans changed and my gf bailed and his dad is supposed to come home Today nott friday. so he still left around 6 so my gf could come over, i didnt know she had broken our plans yet, and he went to the movies with his friends. so about 15 minutes after he left my gf txtd me saying she had to do something else. that night was the homecoming dance at school so i ended up going to that while he was at the movies. he got rly mad that i went to homecoming and didnt believe me when i said i didnt flirt or dance with any guys. so we broke up that night. he said "i just dnt feel close to you anymore i feel like we've grown apart i hardly ever see u anymore" so i was like "wtf i see you every single day in school and after school on fridays plus on the weekends" he just said "i have a headache and im going to bed goodnight ill tty 2moro" so i barely slept all night. the next day (yesterday) it was the same thing. he just said we werent close anymore and he didnt feel the same as he did and he just wanted to be single. so i told him to come over and talk to me and he said no its a waste of gas. so i stopped talking to him, called up my friend Jenn* and we went to the mall. while there, this guy i have been off and on with for the last couple yrs txtd me and said whats up. i told him we were at the mall and he said "we should meet up". he lives like 10 mins away from the mall, i live like 45 mins away from it. i barely get to see him at all because he lives an hour away from me. but he met us there and first thing he did was give me a big hug and said i missed you so much! how are u!? so we started talking and jus walking around until we were about to leave. he gave me a hug and a kiss and told me to txt him later that night. while i was at the mall with him and jenn, my bf (well ex) kept txting me saying:"iam so bored now""hey txt me when u get a chance to talk"i ignored his txts. until me and jenn got in the car and he txtd me again and said:"when are u getting home? i might come over"i just sent him a question mark and he said"are you busy?"i said "going home from the mall.. im confused""ive been at home bored and lonely are u busy" so i said "when i ask u to come over u wont but now u want to? wtf"and he said "ive been bored and lonely all day and i guess it got to me but ill be ok nevermind"so i asked him to just tell me if he was gona come over or not and he said no. and i said ok im gona go. and he asked me where i was going. and i said what? home... and he said "oh i didnt know if u were going somewhere..." and i said "idk" he replied "well are u staying home or what?" i said "probably" and he said "ok then" so i said "ill jus go" and he said "um ok... i guess.." so i said "dont f*** with my head. dnt play games. just stop" and he said "ok get off my dxck about it i wont ask to come over again damn" so i said "oh ill be offff your dxck for as long as u want you made that perfectly clear" he told me i was being bitchy and to knock it off and i jus said sorry then he replied "then dnt fxcking do it" i said ok im not gona fight with u. he said then dnt do it and we wont fight. i said ok im gona go to bed goodnight. he said at nine thirty? k whatever. i said k ill ttyl. and he said dont bother. later. so i jus said "u need to make up your mind. stop with the games. bye" he txtd "i jus want to be alone for a while well without talking to u" i said whats a while? he said idk i cant say. so i said make up ur mind. bye. he said peace. and that was it.its now sunday at 1 oclock in the afternoon. he hasnt txtd me at all. neither has the guy i was with at the mall. im so confused, does my ex want to get back together? do u think we will? why is he playing these games? im so confused! help please!! if u read all that thank u soooo much! i know it was super super longgg!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks everyone! :)
oh and leo3: hes 22! lol soo idk how much olderrr i wantt haha
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reader, Duckyhelp  +, writes (19 October 2009):
 i think he has ended it for good but maybe still wants you as a friend? Or just isnt realizing what he is doing.I think you need to decide what you really want now. Do you want him and his games? or are you willing to move on? Even tho giving into him may seem a good idea, you might regret it later when he jst hurts you.If you do want him, leave it to cool down for a few days, dont txt him 1st! wait for him!! Even tho u mite check ur phne every min! wait! :Phope i helped x
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reader, leo3  +, writes (18 October 2009):
 it sounds like he doesnt want to be with you but also doesnt want to be alone. he sounds like a jerk who's not worth it, you're better off finding someone who can make up his mind and isnt so confused. try to find someone older, their minds seem to be more made up (not that they are any easier to handle though)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 October 2009):
I don't think he knows what he wants to be honest with you. What I do know is that he really isn't ready for a relationship and I don't think he truly loves you. My guess is he didn't know how to end it. I think you would be better ending this completely, giving yourself plenty of tie to heal and then finding a guy who can commit and does know what he wants.
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