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writes:I am 1 of only 2 women working in an Army office with about 8 men. I've been there 3 years and I'm the newest. We are all "pals" - nothing romantic going on - and we talk about everything. On several occasions recently all the men have commented that they get no or practically no sex from their wives. I know men will brag about sex, but normally that would be to say they are getting more than they really are, not less. They seem very serious about not getting any and of course they are complaining. This is the men talking to each other - it's not that they are trying to talk us women into feeling sorry for them and helping them out, or at least I don't think they are. So they complain but so far none of them is getting a divorce so that makes me wonder this: Will any man (these guys are all in their 30s or 40s) who is really not getting action from the wife for months at a time put up with that for long? And why would he, when we all know how important sex is to a man. I'm starting to wonder if my office mates are just making this up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2009): don't married men also complain to their mistresses that they are not having sex with their wives. one of lifes many mysteries.
hey, becareful these married men don't think you are volunteering to help them out.
one other thing that baffles me - married men who claim thay they are not having sex with their wives. then pray do tell , who actually is screwing their wives? because the last time i checked us married women also like to screw. we just don't like to be screwed over!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (18 October 2009):
No, this is just men moaning. We like to moan too!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2009): Take it with a pinch of salt. It means nothing. We like to moan just like you women. Men arent going to open their hearts in that way and speak about their inner feelings. Its just banter.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2009): They are just having a whinge. Perhaps you could give some advice to them to help.
You should read the posts on this site and then you'd see that Men and Women will put up with quite alot to stay in a relationship.
Yes, men are very reluctant to divorce as we see it as a falure on our part. (which it is) I personally dont believe in divorce and would only do it as a very last resort.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2009): It's plenty common. I know lots of guys in that same boat. No, it's usually discussed one on one over beers, rather than broadcast in the office. As for divorce, Ask oldersister is right -- it's usually the women who initiate it. Then the guys are free to go crazy and be 16 again.
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