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writes:i want know if i will ever find the guy that makes me not be able to think about anthing else. I have never had a real boyfriend its got to the point where my friends think i am so sad that i have started lying to my friends bout having a boyfriend i shouldn't need to do that i guess my question is will i find someone so i dont need to lie and all the things i tell my friends can be true Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2009): Trust me im the same, here. i lose my self esteem because im coming up 15 and i havnt had a bf since year three !!! im not ugly or fat. In fact I'm quite pretty and i have a good figre, but im shy, which i guess is hard for me to be more confident. Your not the only one out there with this problem, trust me bub. Just take your time and don't be shy like me, thats the reason i dont have a bf yet. :P hang in there and im sure you will find that special guy, just like i will :):) (L)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for all the comments you have helped alot 3
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reader, ellie:)  +, writes (18 October 2009):
 yes u will! u should flirt and have fun...and dont lie about having a boyfriend cause if your friend find out they might lose their trust in u.....
GOOD LUCK :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 October 2009):
Of course you will. First of all, get rid of this imaginary boyfriend. Your friends might know you're lying and might be playing games with you (they don't sound all that great). Then, focus on your confidence and self esteem. good guys like girls who are confident with themselves and can smile and flirt. So relax, focus on yourself, and the right guy will come along.
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reader, Blod +, writes (18 October 2009):
 Yes, you will definately find a boyfriend one day. You need to wait for the right person and the right time.
Don't lie about having a boyfriend. You always get caught up in your lies. It's not you or anything that you've done that's stopped you from having a boyfriend, you just haven't found the right person yet.
So don't beat yourself up about it. Believe me, there's someone for everyone and when you find him you'll be thinking 'Why was I so worried?'
Good Luck. X
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