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writes: Hey there ,I wonder if someone else has this problem...Coincidences are driving me crazy regarding to my relationship. they are so powerful and devastating ,thatI almost can't believe it when it happens. I'm married and having and I have some really weird connections to the past thru coincidences. They would be so crazy long to explain them, but what happens to me, that they make me sort of crazy. I don't want to be a person, who goes into magical thinking, or to make any bad decisions based on this coincidences. The coincidences are not only haunting me in my marriage, but in many other area .What can I do with coincidences? Do they lead anywhere?Do they have any significance? Like they are some sort of a signs I can't disregard? I really need some opinion here, because they are like ghostly following me, and please believe I'm not going crazy ,or not trying to fake it . It is real. So my main question is what do they mean? Should we listen to them? And if it happens to others? Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009): It is very hard to prove, and always dead end. But I do believe ,some people are more chosen to this phenomenon than others.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009): confirmation bias...
That sounds very good advice ,I looked it up, and trying to understand it in depth. But maybe I try to give an example.
I actually feel I'm afraid of looking for evidence, yet it is there. I have a feeling long time ago that a family member wished something very bad for me, as my life is full of bad luck, and it is not only me who thinks that. feels like cursed// So on her death day I unavoidably, having at least 3 horrible things happening to me,every year. like car accident,losing something,getting a very bad news from someone else in family or friends. So now I'm superstitious about this day, and I think she haunts me. There will be also signs everywhere with her name, finding things about her etc. Well I don't know ,if it was the best example ,but I hope it tells you ,that is a little more,than ''confirmation bias'... What do you think? Thanks for reading it also there is much more than this...
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