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*tee01
writes:What should i do? I have been in a relationship for 3 years and out of the 3 most of it has been arguments over me cheating. I have not cheated and stayed true through out the relationship, now its to the point where i dont wanna be in this anymore. There is no fun and happiness here. I love her but i cant take it anymore. I am ready to leave because it doesnt get anything but worst. Reply to this Question
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reader, bitch +, writes (18 October 2009):
I can see you are struggling with breaking up with this person because you care about his feelings. If he doesn't trust you, then he has issues that you cannot change. Especially since you have been faithful all along. You don't need to be in a relationship with somebody who cannot completely trust you. You can end this by telling him you feel this relationship is causing you undue stress and it is not feeling like a happy relationship to you anymore. This trust issue is not your fault. I think you should end it and try to move forward to find a happier life.
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reader, Artistry +, writes (18 October 2009):
 Hi there, Life is very short, so you have to decide if you want to enjoy your life, or if you want to satisfy someone else's desire to have you in their life. It makes no sense, relationships are supposed to be about two people wanting to be together, not one person wanting to control the situation, regardless of what the other person wants. But you must make your wishes known, go to a neutral place and talk it all out amicably. It should be understood, that you are not satisfied and the light, so to speak, has gone out for you in this relationship. Be true to yourself, talk it out with her and end this uncomfortable situation. You will find peace of mind, which is so very important in daily life. Take care.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (18 October 2009):
You must be brave, sit her down and tell her it's over. Be calm, be short and be truthful. It sounds like she has seriousy trust issues, which are not your fault. Just be calm and concise, then end it and end all contact.
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (18 October 2009):
 You are your own person, and if this person is not a right fit for you, then you have to do what's best and that is to end it. Break ups are hard, but the pain of prolonging a doomed relationship is even worse.
Just calmly sit her down and say I do not want to be in this relationship anymore. She will probably cry and try to change your mind, but at the end of the day, she is not going to change and you need to do what's best for your own life and sanity. It's not selfish. You are just taking care of your own well being. good luck
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