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Am I just now seeing my ex has feelings for me?

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Question - (18 October 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 October 2009)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *essicabayuby writes:

hello, im Jessica. i am finished with my boyfriend (jus say his name is Sam) nearly a year now i was with him for 6 months and i was truely in love with him and i knew he felt the same way. i am only sixteen and people tell me i dont know what love is but i do, i really do, well atleast i did?

anyways,for about two weeks something was up. nothing felt the same anymore he wouldnt write back to my text messages, etc. it was like he didnt want me anymore. and then one day he just finished it with me by text! but even worse he texted my friend to tell me! (i have forgiven him after months).when me an him had finshed he was acting really immature and always annoying me like throwin balls , etc. (childish stuff) but then i stopped being around him an he started to hang around with different people we then hadnt talked for months.

but then he started hanging back around with us again an he wasnt being himself, he doesnt act immature, he does always be so nice to me, anytime i look at him he would be looking my way and he sometimes sends me a random text saying "whats up?" or "how are you?" he is actually being nicer then ever to me. is he only happy hes rid of me? or is he realisin im gone forever and hes trying to hide it? or does he still have feelings for me? please somebody let me know what is happening here?

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A female reader, 123skyscraper Canada +, writes (19 October 2009):

ignore his text, if u answer it, be brief with one word or one sentence response. this guy is the past, let the past be the past. i dont know if he has feelings for you, but he definitely sees it as a kick/rush/ego things if u do respond to him. chances are he'll treat u bad again like he treated you before. dumping by text is pretty bad. my last ex dumped me by phone, i thought that was bad enough. sorry honey. move on.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (18 October 2009):

He might still have feelings for you, but the truth is he failed you once. To dump someone by text is terrible, and he did. Personally, I'd not pay much notice to him again. He'll probably only hurt you.

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