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writes:I'm gay and in love with my tutor-councillor from an educational summer program I go 2. Over the 6 weeks there I became really close with. He's so gorgeous and my knees grow weak just thinking about him. He's 20 and a junior in college. I'm 17 and a senior in high school. I asked him if he was gay cuz on the last night some other kid started saying being gay is gross and wrong. Well he started crying and left the room. I told him I was gay and I thought he might be 2. He told me he was and then told me about his boyfriend. He went into his life story telling me the ups and downs he went thru. He said he should of told on me cuz i croosed the student-councillor line but he wasn't going to. He ssid he was flattered I came out 2 him. But what he doesnt know is how much i like him. I think about him all the time but I'm afraid 2 tell him my true feelings. He wrote me a scroll at the end of the summer saying how he appreciated my soft nature and added in I was a good looking kid. He said I could go and visit him at his college anytime. He gave me his phone # and email. we talk thru email once in a while. But i never can get the nerve 2 tell him my true feelings. I dont know what to do. I want to tell him but I dont want it to ruin our frienship. I would rather be friends than nothing! What should I do I need advice here. The other day we had a workshop for the program. The program supplies transportation. You just have to be at a certain spot. They dont go pick u up @ homes. Well he wad the one picking up the kids from my town. When he brought us back to b dropped off my dad forgot 2 pick me up (thanks dad). So he offered to drive me home. Saying he didnt have any plans 2night so he didnt mind. So I got to be all alone with him and I didnt even try or say what i feel. Was getting to be alone with him a sign from the stars? He has the most beautiful brown eyes I have seen. What are the chances the guy I was attracted to at begining of summer was gay? Should I tell him how I feel and possibly ruin our friendship? Does anyone think he has feelings for me? No one knows I'm gay but everyone at the prgram thought he might b gay and have a thing for me. What should I do? I'll be seeing him this upcoming saturday for tutoring. He's driving 2. Should I tell him then face to face or through an email? Or should I just abandon all hope and move on? Either way telling him or moving on is gunna b hard... I need advice....Thanks!But what would a college guy want with a high school kid.
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reader, chrissy32789 +, writes (19 October 2009):
 Hey its a pretty long question, but i will try to help you out as much as i can. First of all this guy may or may not like you like that, just because of the other kids telling you that they think this guy likes you dont mean that he really does, alot of kids are like that, they think if you are gay you like all boys or girls, ive gone throw that in high school.
you should open up to this guy and tell him how you feel, if he opened up to you and told you he was gay and talked about other things that is private then, you should open up to him too and tell him how you feel.
I would not say being alone wit him was a sign.
It would be alot easier to type him through email and let him know how you feel that way you can type it up and read it to yourself before you see him and get all nervious again and not do it, just give it a chance the worst thing that will happen is he will tell you that he dont want to be with you, but he wants to be friends, so just open up to him and write him!
There is not that much of an age gap between you so he may not think about that your only in highschool and hes in collage. Good luck
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