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Does he want me or her?

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Question - (18 October 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 October 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

How do i know if my boyriend still wants to be with his ex?

My boyfriend and I have been on and off for almost a year now. I love him with everything i have and he tells me he does too. Im living at his house but theres one problem.. his ex girlfriend. she keeps calling and trying to get him to hang out. when we were broken up for awhile she came over here but they never did anything. when she calls he always tells her hes with me but last night she called and was all upset and he actually invited her over here with me here. I sat in the room and cried the whole time she was here and he didnt even bother to come see what was wrong. How can i tell if he still wants her or me?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (19 October 2009):

He wants her because he left you crying in another room while she was there. Dump this poor excuse for a man and find youself someone who actually does love you and you only. Good luck.

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A female reader, HereAreMyTwoCents United States +, writes (19 October 2009):

HereAreMyTwoCents agony auntOk, how rude. He actually brings his ex over and leaves you crying in the other room. Obviously, he's not completely over her, and not too considerate of you. If it were me in your situation, I would have been light years gone away from this relationship by now, given what he has put you through regarding his ex. I would not invest a second of my life in a relationship that is wishy washy like that, especially since you've been together only a year, and not even a complete year, instead an "on and off" year. Seriously, find someone who's really into YOU, and only you, is over his past, and is ready to give you the love and respect you deserve.

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