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writes:if someone(person A) you liked started to anoy you by texting and im.img you all the time how could or what couuld this person(person A) do to get you to not be mad and or like them again? ok well this guy and i started talking over the summer and i really really liked him and he told me he liked me. so one day we were going to hang out but when i called he said he had too much home work and we'd have to make a raincheck. (we no longer go to the same school by the way) so the next day i told my best friend who he hates that i felt stood up by him so she used my phone and text him over and over and over and over again that i hates him and hes dumb the words she used were way meaner. he thought it was me later i yold him it was her and he beleived me but was still mad... now he isnt replying to anything i send him...emails, text, im's nothing...so i still really like him what should i do to get him to not be mad at me... his birthdays coming up i got him a card and teddy bare, should i stick to my plan and have it sent to him at school or just send him a text and hope he replys?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2009): If you've let him know that it was in fact your friend and not you who sent all those texts (does the previous poster understand this?), and you think he believes you then he's probably not mad at you. He likely just thinks it's all too much of a hassle and headache to have anything to do with you because of your friend. Possibly anyway.Forget the card and the teddy (I'm not sure it's a good idea to send a teddy bear to a guy at his school anyway). All you can do is send one more text, or email, or phone call or whatever, appologise for what your friend did again, explain that you'd like to see him again because you felt you had a real connection, and leave it at that. If he doesn't respond you'll just have to forget it. I'm sorry but that's all there is to it. No amount of gifts or pleading is going to help. Give him some space and time to cool down before you send the text, and then just leave it at that.I wish you well.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (18 October 2009):
Ask to speak to him face to face. He will be hurt that you allowed your friend to do what she did. You need to speak to him, apologize a lot and hope that he accepts it. Good luck.
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