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female
age
36-40,
*eefee stush
writes:hey i think my relationship has just ended for some shit i have done but it did not happen just like that he he push me to it,hear it goes just at the start of my relationship my boyfriend told me that he had sex with my ex-boyfriend's mother but at that time i was still living there but my ex and i we were no longer together he is in jail.i just started to shake i did not know what to do or what to say i started to think is this someone i could trust?he had already did it with my manager and i still have this feeling that he is living 2 lives so i wanted to hurt him just like he hurt me so i knew the only thing that would hurt him is if i told him that i was having his baby but then turn around and tell him i was aborting it,so i did so.i played that game with him 3 days but it not like me so i could not hold out for that long i was hurting real bad,i had to tell him,but now he is sooo angry i don't think he would forgive me right now i want a change to be with him again i am trying to call him he's not answering and i am hurting more than before i love him so much.do you think this relationship has a chance?how can i make it right?was i extremely wrong to do that to him because we was not in a relationship at the time?reader do you understand my hurt and why i did what i did?how can i make it up to him?is he worth it?
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reader, feefee stush +, writes (19 October 2009):
feefee stush is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks from replying we made back up and he admitted that he was wrong. cause in that situation that woman and i was living in the same house at the time so it was plane disrespect,i told him i was sorry and he accept,you don't fuck people that lives in the same house only a man who has no class would not agree with such a thing and with out a condom wow i wonder how he would feel if i put him at risk i am sure he would have my head,in this day and age? thanks anyway
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009): You wanted to cause him intense pain, and you succeded!
Let me understand... your BF told you that PRIOR to being your BF, he slept with a woman who happended to be your ex-BF's mom (who she is really doesn't matter...) and you got upset.
Recap- Your BF told you about sex he had with someone before you and you got upset.
Question? What right is it of your that you can get upset about this? Now, if, because you now the family you find that really creapy, discusting, whatever, then you have a right to tell him, or dump him... if you can accept it, then accept it- but to go off on him was likely the wrong thing to do.
The event caused you MASSIVE pain, that you wanted to inflict in the same amount to him. You made up the most painful story you could (thank GOD you didn't call him and tell him his family had just been found murdered... nice you spared him THAT)... and then he's been told that you lied, and now he's REALLY MAD that you intentionally inflicted that much pain on him.
This guy deserves an award for recongizing that he doesn't need to be in a relationship with you, and is cutting it off before you inflict more pain!
You need to learn a good hard lesson here, and eye for an eye results in distruction like this... don't pull a sad stunt like this again, or expect health men to see you for what you are and decide life is too short....
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