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He'd rather jerk off than have sex with me!

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Question - (13 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 February 2009)
A female Canada age 41-50, *asteySweetTina writes:

My man would rather jerk off then have sex with me. It takes him like 5mins to get me off and it takes him like an hour for him to masturbate. He goes for like a week not wanting to have sex with me but jerks off every night. He says it isn't me, he just likes the feeling better, but I totally believe it's me. I'm 32 and he is 20, we've been living together for a year and a half, I've gained like 15lbs too. Should I be worried, can I fix it or should I just end it?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2009):

If you feel that you still love him and have good times with him then you shoudldent give up. maybe talk to him seriously about how you feel or if you think it would help maybe you could have a weekend away with him or spend some time together to re build your sex life.. just an idea but it may be some help :) x

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