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Plenty of eye contact but no action! Interested? Or not?

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Question - (13 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 February 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I am 21 and I go to college. There's this guy in one of my classes. Its been about 3 weeks. We've maintained plenty of eye contact and all. We haven't actually spoken to each other. He definitely notices that I have been looking at him. He's been looking too.

One time, there's this girl in class, I believe they are friends, they walked into class and sat down together. And started talking, then she looked up at me, with a little smile face, like when you say hi to someone. And she looked at me looking at him a few times. Ever since then, she does look at me every now and then. Even when they are not sitting together, she still takes a peek to see if I am looking at him, and for some reason, I see both of them texting while this is going on.

I just want to know, Is he looking at me, to just look at me, or might he be interested? I am interested and would like to get to know him. I was considering befriend the girl, but a girlfriend of mine advised me not to involve a girl in this. Please Help!

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A male reader, anoms United Kingdom +, writes (13 February 2009):

anoms agony aunti had alot of this going on in college it was very fun, im sure he does like you but he's probably shy also, why dont you just ask him if he wants to come to the canteen at lunch time, i used to always get to know people over lunch when i was studying, just make it fun, gudluk.

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A female reader, Mrs. Mom United States +, writes (13 February 2009):

Mrs. Mom agony auntI agree with your friend. Don't use the girlfriend to get to him--that won't impress him. Just ask him out for coffee.

Good luck!

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