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*rincessSmithee
writes:Theres this guy who ive known for about a month, ive bumped into him twice and we got along really well.We speak on facebook and text and weve been speaking so much, flirting, he mentioned going to the cinema with me. etc etc.Just obvisley really interested.You know that spark were you feel all butterflies and happy, it was so there.But recentley since wednesday, i feel like its gone. I dont know wether its because weve been speaking so often online its getting boring, or because ive got my hopes really down about the whole thing to aviod dissapointment.We spoke on wednesday and today online and he seemed unflirty and just not as interested as he normally is :(he even went offline without saying bye.I was planning to text him on monday asking if he wants to hang outGood idea?i would do it sooner but he only asked me the monday just gone and i dont want to look really clingy.Should i not speak to him until monday?and do you think he will see past the way things have been the past few days, and look back to how interested he was and great we get on?and yeah my first question, can the spark come back?
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reader, PrincessSmithee +, writes (14 February 2009):
PrincessSmithee is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thankyou, yee im going to tell him straight. x
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reader, Equinox  +, writes (13 February 2009):
The best thing to do is be upfront. Talk to him and tell him how you feel, he may have a valid reason for being a bit distant. Also, try not to worry too much about things, remember that you have a crush and that this hasnt developed into a serious relationship yet. Hope this helps, all the best.
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